Love Letter To Wellington

Daily Thoughts

The first several weeks in Wellington were filled with dancing among strangers, long walks around town, going to interviews, reading books at the waterfront, attending art exhibitions, hiking up hills, going to the cinema, networking with different people, listening to live gigs, and going to events. I loved this description here describing Wellington like the town in Kiki’s Delivery Service “Anyone new to Wellington can relate to Kiki. Bumpy landing into a charming city by the sea…” Which is an accurate description when you’re sitting on the plane in a rocky turbulence, minus the broomstick. After the first two weeks, it already felt like home. There were so many cats lurking around every street corner, and even more cafes to spend hours in reading to your hearts content.

As a country girl at heart, the beauty of Wellington is how many awesome hiking tracks there are, and the short walk towards the sea. The lovely weekend markets, feeling of community and ease of walking everywhere. The town opened its arms wide open into a warm summers hug. Smiling at other runners, finding the best vegan smoothies and listening to live jazz. Living with the best flatmates after only meeting them via video whilst I was still in Auckland and strangers turning into friends are some of the highlights. As I was born and raised in Auckland, the first thing I really felt was the very laid back nature of Wellington, slower pace of life and how people tend to make more eye contact, have random conversations and smile at one another.

Til now, it still takes time getting used to bumping into people I’ve met or know. Nearly every time I was in town I would bump into someone I met at a networking event, a friend, a friend of a friend, someone I went on a date with, or people I’ve met briefly in Wellington. I love the different creatives making crafts, clothing, art, music, theatre and film. I love the crazy hills and even the wind that becomes background noise over time. I love that there is an awareness of sustainability and supporting local businesses. I love how active the city is as you go out for a jog. There’s always many other people out for a jog as well, going for a bike, swimming in the ocean, taking a walk, hiking up a mountain, kayaking, roller-blading or skating.

Some other loves are the waterfront, te papa museum, singing at bars, live music, fix and fogg peanut butter, browsing markets, dressing in whatever you feel like, and the view from the top of the mountains. It’s been 6 months since settling into the coolest capital in the world. There’s definitely been difficult times and challenges, as life naturally has, but overall it’s been amazing. It’s an incredibly compact city, as I recall using Google maps for the first two weeks trying to make my way around, but now the town is like a map on the back of my hand. The wonderful thrift stores, kind people, art work on buildings, simplicity in life, and a nice vibe. If you love walking as much as I do, it’s the perfect place to walk around and it’s very pedestrian friendly. Every city has its pros and cons, and I’m yet to embrace winter, but for now it’s home.

Art by Yuliya

Adventures In Wellington

Daily Thoughts

helenI arrived back from Wellington last night, and I felt an overwhelming sense of love and happiness. I don’t get to see my family often, and so I feel very grateful when I can. My sister and I were watching this short video that talked about how one sustains longevity and good health. The three things they said were important include: healthy social life, active lifestyle and eating a predominantly vegetarian diet. They also mentioned having some red wine. Relationships are so important in our lives. They are ultimately what give our lives purpose and meaning, as the connection we build with one another feeds our heart.

Auckland and Wellington / Growing up in Auckland and after living in Sydney, there are definitely some similarities and naturally differences. However, whenever I’ve visited Wellington, I always feel like it has a homely feeling, a place to embrace your creativity and the ease of meeting people and making new friends. Whereas in Auckland, I’ve found that there isn’t a sense of that openness, although it may also be because it’s a big city with many people. Perhaps it’s the corporate feeling that Auckland and Sydney give, but then again that’s why it’s good to explore the secret corners of cities and realise that every city has its own special touch.


Acceptance and Stories / It’s not easy to talk about certain topics with people in our everyday lives, and that’s why having those close to you where you can talk about anything is so valuable. I think the reason why it’s not always easy, is because we live in a time where people are always going to disagree on some things. I watched a Netflix video called Nanette with Hannah Gadsby, and it nearly made me cry. It was touching, emotional and eye-opening. The stories we all hold are what ultimately connects us together. She talks about mental health, LGBTQ issues, gender and art history.


Media representation / After watching Crazy Rich Asians my head was filled with so many thoughts and I may or may not have shed some tears. I feel like when you grew up as an Asian in a Western country, you’re never quite completely seen as one or the other. When I’m in Taiwan, most people will sense that I’m a foreigner in my mannerisms and the way I speak. When I’m in New Zealand, I will always be questioned about my ethnicity through my physical identity. I hope in ten years time that the word ‘Asian’ and ‘Black’ won’t need to be in the title of films and that it would just be a natural and normal thing to have an all Asian or an all Black cast.

In an article from Variety, it says “It’s an experience many Asian-Americans, like myself, know well. Like Rachel in the film, I’ve been accused of being a “banana” — yellow on the outside, white on the inside — a pejorative assigned to Asian-Americans who have lost touch with their roots.” I was often called a banana growing up, and when I think back to it, sadly I wasn’t fully in touch with my Chinese culture. When I was younger and went back to Taiwan, there were some things that gave me a culture shock or I didn’t quite understand why it’s done this or that way. The term banana makes me think of the term assimilation. Yet, I think it’s simply important to embrace yourself for who you are, regardless of what your accent sounds like or what you look like.

In Chinese culture, there is a desire to have harmony. This is why a lot of racism is tolerated and hidden under the covers. But, we have to speak up when it’s most crucial and we must educate and tell people when they are prejudicing, being hurtful, making assumptions and falling for stereotypes. I know that many parents who moved to New Zealand, have had to work really hard to build the path and raise their children in a new country. When I look at New Zealand’s media, it’s still predominantly white, even though we live in a multicultural society. I really hope that there will be more and more diversity in the media and that we can hear from all kinds of voices.


Growing up as a Kiwi Asian / I was reading this article here while waiting at the boarding area at the Wellington airport. I say this often, but when we don’t experience something ourselves, we can often not see or understand the other person completely. If we open our hearts and learn to hear others stories, we can judge less and realise that every person is going through their own journey. I grew up eating Chinese food, with the occasional pasta or roast. I grew up reading Chinese books, going to Saturday Chinese classes, watching Chinese cartoons and when I first learned English as a child, it took a while to fully grasp the definition of certain words. This opened my love for reading because I became curious about learning new words.

Growing up in the countryside meant that there weren’t many Asians. In the article Rose writes “It provokes strange reactions in us, to be almost invisible in the stories we read.” This is incredibly true in the sense that growing up I rarely was exposed to literature that made me feel I could relate to completely. Like Rose, I grew up reading Chinese Cinderella by Adeline Yen Mah. However, there always felt a lack of writing that was relatable to one’s own experience. When Rose talked about being at school, she says “At school I manufactured a clear divide between me and Chinese students in the International Students Block…I took this as a sign of my successful integration. I was Chinese, but I wasn’t Chinese Chinese.”

I made friends with others Kiwis and didn’t have any close Asian friends growing up. When I was in college, there was this feeling of not being able to completely relate to being a Taiwanese. Which was perhaps why I didn’t make friends with any of the Chinese international students at the time. Now that I’m older, I embrace my Chinese culture after neglecting it as a child and as a teenager. When I go back to Taiwan, I feel this deep appreciation for Chinese culture. The beautiful language, the rich history, the traditions and the stories people have to share. Rose writes “Before I spent time in China, I had never missed it. I hadn’t known what to miss … As I understood what being Chinese meant to me, I cast off a shame that had started so young that I never realised I was carrying it around.” 


I relate to this article in many ways, and how as I am older, I feel proud of my background. Sadly, growing up being bullied for being Asian influenced my neglect of the culture. We change mindsets when we have conversations and raise awareness. The last excerpt I want to share by Rose reads “I want more narratives that don’t come from Pākehā-centric worldviews. I want to hear about the different experiences of being Asian in Auckland, Invercargill and Hawera. I want to know where the model minority stereotype falls flat, I want to know how East Asian privilege affects brown Asians. And most importantly, I want to read about things that I don’t know the existence of yet.” I think that the more we share out stories through conversations, the more we can all be understanding of one another.


Bridging the gap / This audio clip from 95bfm talks about bridging the gap between New Zealand and Chinese international students. It’s a topic that’s incredibly important because often culture and language can create a divide, that stops international students and New Zealanders from being able to connect and become friends. I’ve been going to the Wednesday meet up that is mentioned, and it’s been a really great experience. It’s good to be encouraging and help others with their English. I think of my parents and other parents that moved to New Zealand from China and Taiwan, and how they had to build their path while learning English. Language can make us feel a sense of belonging, and ultimately a sense of connection.

Azure’s Cat Helen